use separate options for Node.js 23 #1254

Job	Run time
bundled_gdal_coverage	5m 46s
test_distros_bundled (amazonlinux:2023)	19m 48s
test_distros_shared (ubuntu:20.04)	4m 7s
test_distros_bundled (ubuntu:24.04)	4m 46s
test_distros_shared (ubuntu:22.04)	4m 56s
test_asan	4m 29s
test_distros_shared (ubuntu:24.04)	3m 45s
test_mac (macos-13, 18.x)	8m 11s
test_distros_shared (debian:bullseye)	4m 0s
test_mac (macos-13, 20.x)	7m 7s
test_mac_debug	7m 14s
test_node_new (22, shared)	4m 0s
test_distros_shared (fedora:37)	5m 41s
test_mac (macos-13, 22.x)	6m 52s
test_node_new (22, bundled)	5m 20s
test_distros_shared (centos:stream9)	5m 5s
test_mac (macos-13, 23.x)	7m 25s
test_node_new (23, shared)	4m 6s
test_node_old (18, shared)	3m 49s
test_mac (macos-15, 18.x)	3m 53s
test_node_new (23, bundled)	4m 3s
test_node_old (18, bundled)	4m 10s
test_mac (macos-15, 20.x)	3m 45s
test_win (18.x)	26m 32s
test_node_old (20, shared)	3m 55s
test_mac (macos-15, 22.x)	4m 3s
test_node_old (20, bundled)	5m 20s
test_win_debug	25m 53s
test_win (20.x)	25m 15s
test_mac (macos-15, 23.x)	3m 47s
test_win (22.x)	33m 3s
test_win (23.x)	27m 38s
	4h 47m 44s

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