Adapt build to new cibuildwheel and other upstream changes (#314) #6

Job	Run time
sdist	4m 41s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/x86_64/cpython/many	19m 52s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/x86_64/cpython/musl	25m 50s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/arm64/cpython/many	2h 6m 23s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/arm64/cpython/musl	2h 45m 16s
cibuildwheel macos-13/x86_64/cpython/many	27m 29s
cibuildwheel macos-13/arm64/cpython/many	5m 43s
upload_all	0s
	6h 15m 14s

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