module: add dynamic file-specific ESM warnings

[mertcanaltin]

I improved the error message to include specific file and package.json details, trying to make it clearer and more actionable as requested in the TODO

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 88.88889% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 89.20%. Comparing base (3fe8027) to head (777a249).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/node_contextify.cc	88.88%	0 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main   #56628   +/-   ##
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  Coverage   89.19%   89.20%           
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  Files         662      662           
  Lines      191893   191901    +8     
  Branches    36937    36932    -5     
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+ Hits       171164   171184   +20     
+ Misses      13573    13561   -12     
  Partials     7156     7156           

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_contextify.cc	81.40% <88.88%> (+0.04%)	⬆️

... and 40 files with indirect coverage changes