[CI] speed up `clang-tidy` workflow (#3148) #2

Job	Run time
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	8m 32s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, async)	9m 15s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	7m 7s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	5m 12s
CMake test (with abseil)	5m 12s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, sync)	9m 2s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 17s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	8m 35s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 53s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 16s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	5m 26s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	8m 58s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	4m 46s
Bazel	17m 21s
Bazel with async export	17m 3s
Bazel without bzlmod	16m 35s
Bazel valgrind	19m 51s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 32s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, async)	6m 56s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 40s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	18m 14s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 37s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	14m 29s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	8m 40s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 5s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	8m 32s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 17s
Bazel asan config	20m 2s
Bazel noexcept	17m 11s
Bazel nortti	16m 49s
Bazel on MacOS	11m 15s
Bazel tsan config	17m 46s
Benchmark	48s
Copyright	7s
Format	22s
CMake -> exporter proto	12m 20s
Code coverage	11m 14s
DocFX check	1m 4s
markdown-lint	6s
shellcheck	6s
misspell	3s
W3C Distributed Tracing Validation V1	4m 6s
Bazel Windows	34m 19s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	6m 45s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	12m 32s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	16m 48s
	7h 24m 6s

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